Q:  Why “Gems”?
A:  What comes to mind when you think of a gem? Rubies, sapphires, diamonds, and emeralds are beautiful, precious, and rare. They come in many different hues, but all sparkle in their own way. Sometimes their inner beauty is hidden within, but it is there all the time, waiting to be discovered. Gems also have many facets, with each facet contributing to the whole. We believe that nurturing and developing the feminine facet of our personalities enhances every aspect of our lives.

Q: Is this the right group for me?
A:  Anyone who supports our goals is welcome to join us. We have members who identify as CD, TG, and TS, as well as partners, family members, friends, and allies. To help you decide whether the Gems are a good fit for you, why not click HERE to join our Yahoo group? You can ask questions, talk with other members, and get to know us before attending your first Gems event. To read more about our vision, click HERE.

Q: How do I join?
A: For an overview of how you can attend our events or become a member, click HERE.

Q:  I have never left the house dressed en femme before. Can you help me?
A: Yes we can! Assisting those who are "in the closet" is an important part of what we do. Here you will find a group of caring sisters who will hold your hand and help you get out the door. Our socials are a safe and welcoming place for first-timers, and we are available to give you all the advice and encouragement you need to take that first step. If you and/or your partner aren't ready to attend a dressed event in public, then you might prefer to come to one of  our private events, such as a party or game night held at a member's home. You are also welcome to attend any of our events in male mode if that is more comfortable for you. We have lots of options and resources to offer you, and we are always here to help.

Q: Is there a fee for membership or for attending socials?
A: Our annual membership fees are $50 for an individual or $75 for a couple. The membership year runs from the first day of March to the last day of  February.  Dues are prorated for those joining mid-year. You may attend your first Gems event free as our guest. After that, you have the option of either applying for membership, or continuing to attend as a guest for a door fee of $5 per person, per event. Members do not pay a door fee. Members also enjoy other benefits which will be explained when you submit your membership application. One hundred percent of funds collected from members go directly to supporting group events, activities, and outreach.

Q: Exactly where do you meet? The website doesn't say.
A: For security reasons, we do not usually publicize the location of our events on the website. If you are interested in attending, you should apply to join our Yahoo group, where you will have access to all the details of where and when events are held.

Q: I am an "admirer" looking to meet and date transgender people. Am I welcome to join you?
A: We are not a dating service, and our code of conduct specifies that we maintain a family-friendly environment at our socials and events. If you are interested in a relationship with a transgender person, try the local nightclub scene or the personal ads.

Q: I am under 18. Can I join?
A: You must be over 18 to participate in River City Gems activities, unless we have written permission from your parent or guardian. If you are a teen, we can direct you to a local transgender youth group or other appropriate resources.

Q: Are you a chapter of Tri-Ess (Society for the Second Self)?
A: No. We are not affiliated with Tri-Ess International, Inc.